Playing Well With Others

Playing Well with OthersYour Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM CommunitiesBy Lee Harrington, Mollena WilliamsPaperback; 312 pagesWhether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink.While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* – the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.You'll learn to:Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desiresEase your way into established communitiesUnderstand etiquette in different adventurous sex communitiesFamiliarize yourself with the many types of events available to youCare for your relationships as you explore new territoryNegotiate for play and aftercareGo back to the "world at large" without ruffling feathers...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?!The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom.Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.